I’m Still Standing

I know it’s been a while, and I had hoped to get back to a regular schedule of posting here, but things don’t always turn out the way we plan, do they? To borrow from an Elton John song – I’m still standing. Life has been throwing multiple curve balls at me, and while I’m …

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Boundaries Part Two

The Consequences of Ignoring Boundaries: Why You Don’t Want to F*ck Around and Find Out. You can find Part One here. A reminder that I’m not a psychologist or psychiatrist, that said – this is advice from my own life and experiences, and is not to be used as a substitute for actual mental health …

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Boundaries Part One

Boundaries – what, why, and more… Boundaries are especially needed for people who are kind-hearted and givers by nature, because takers will not generally have them, and when they encounter them, well, that in part is why I’m talking about it. A reminder that I’m not a psychologist or psychiatrist, that said – this is …

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Do No Harm

Part of protecting my peace, and bringing back into focus the Do No Harm But Take No Shit, is remembering that the “Do no harm” also includes to myself. I have kept mostly quiet about the bullshit that was dropped into my lap, uninvited, in August 2020. Even as I installed extra security on my …

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